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Make As Many Mistakes As You Can

 Make as Many Mistakes as You Can

In the previous article, we established a couple points that help one stick with the formidable project of learning to speak a second language namely, Spanish.

To re-cap:

  • It is a huge project that will take longer than you think.
  • It is hard for everybody (except for the extremely rare progeny).

If we can clean these 2 points out of our heads and press on, we’ll be more likely to learn Spanish. However, there is another point that needs to be mentioned. And it’s a problem that likely plagues other areas of our life from time to time: pride.

To learn to speak a language, we have to pass through the goo-goo gah-gah phase of our toddler days yet again, but this time as an adult. It was much easier when we were 16 months old, everybody expected our incompetence. But now we are mature, intelligent, have a respected career, and are really quite intellectually advanced. 

Pride kills a lot of efforts to learn a second language. Funny thing, it isn’t just the big, wealthy, fit, smart, beautiful ones that fall to this. Over the years of living here in Costa Rica and being asked on innumerable occasions to help Tico friends with their English, I have seen on a regular and consistent basis these lovely, humble Ticas (female Costa Ricans) unable to overcome their embarrassment (they need to speak perfectly before they’ll let anyone hear their limited level of English). This effectively hamstrings any possibility that they will learn the language. 

Ya’ Gotta’ Make Mistakes:
It’s the only way. You try this, and it doesn’t work, so you try that. If you’re wrong, you find out by doing. It’s the Thomas Edison rule of achievement. “I didn’t fail 10,000 times while inventing the light bulb. I uncovered 10,000 ways that a light bulb won’t work. 

This point has actually been established by researchers. The process of learning a language involves making many mistakes. If we aren’t sticking our necks out

Learn Spanish - It's Really Really Hard.

There is an awful lot of emphasis put on life enrichment these days.  We see it when we turn on the TV, listen to the radio, surf the web.  Walk into a book store and there is likely a display of books on how to be happier, healthier and live a fuller, richer life.

I’ve got a tip that can enrich your life – learn Spanish.

It has got to be one of the, if not the most life enriching thing that I’ve done. 

To be able to communicate with another culture is an amazing thing.

This fact had an awful lot to do with my then wife and I deciding to sell out, pack up, and move our family to Costa Rica in 1999. 

Prior to that time, I had always admired and envied those that had a second language. We tried in the States to learn Spanish.  I bought a huge satellite dish and put it out in the yard just so we could get Spanish TV.  I thought that would be the way to get the kids to learn Spanish – NOT. 

At that time there was no Rosetta Stone, but I did scour the market and found what there was.  Berlitz has always been pretty good.  I bought their cassettes and memorized them.  “Hola Pedro. Como está?  Donde está María?” and so on.  We found a video set that assured us our kids would learn Spanish.  They did watch the videos and would mockingly say “Zozo está listo para los panquekes?”

Why Use Dominical Dot Biz For Your Small Business?

Web Site Promotion Choices

"In many cases, it seems that small business sites are becoming harder to find through organic search. If you look you can find them, but users want convenience, and they are probably not going to look too hard if they can find what they are looking for on the first search results page..."

Costa Rica's southern pacific zone is a sausage linkage of small towns: Dominical, Uvita, Ojochal, Hatillo, Matapalo, all chalk full of small businesses.  There are no, none, zip, zilch - name brand hotels, restaurants, department stores here.  Consequently, when people are preparing to visit here and they go into their favorite search engine, let's say - Google, and they search for the nice, generic words "Hotels in Dominical Costa Rica". What they are going to find in their returns are portal sites, like Dominical Dot biz, that deal with all that the town has to offer, and a smattering of long standing, hard working hotels in the area.

One of the most searched for words on the Internet is "Hotels".  There are hundreds of hotels in Costa Rica.  They are all vieing for that search term. 

A Little History

I made a guess some years ago that turned out to be true - the Dominical Costa Rica area was bound for big changes.

I was swimming in a pool at the base of a waterfall talking with a gentleman that I met there about his plans to develop the area.  I wasn't sure what my personal feelings were about the plans I heard about that day, but I recognized that changes were in the wind. 

I had built a number of successful websites at that point for some of the area merchants: Hacienda Baru a shining example of eco-tourism and reforestation featuring rain forest zip line tours, among other jungle related activities.  Also, Green Iguana Surf Camp which went on to become the most successful surf related business in Dominical for years.  Green Iguana enjoyed being not only top dog on the surf camp scene but the only surf camp on the scene for years.  It has been joined by numerous other surf camps and learn-to-surf efforts over the recent years.

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Thanks for reading. 

Ben Vaughn

Recession Blues Cure

I just stumbled on an article over at CNN's Money section that says that Costa Rica is the place to go right now. The dollar goes a long way. Check it out. Its hard to say what the effect is going to be on Costa Rica, but the global economic conditions might actually stimulate things around here a little bit. I'm not making any projections. In fact, I'd like to defer to the response that I see the TV commentator using quite a lot: "we'll see". The dollar is currently worth about 560 colones here. The expats in the country are feeling some relief from this exchange rate.

The Road Between Quepos & Dominical

I found a recent article in the Costa Rican national newspaper that discussed the current state of the “Bumpy Road” north of Dominical. It was so detailed and specific with date projections that I thought it might be a benefit to readers of my blog to translate and paraphrase it here. My analysis should be unique enough that I haven’t asked permission from La Nacion, but the attribution is inherent in the above disclosure. Their website is www.nacion.com. (Click here for the smaller English version.)

The article was dated Wednesday October 19, 2008: “The minister of Public Works and Transportation, Karla Gonzales, declared before neighbors of Quepos ‘In October of 2009, the Southern Coastal Highway (la Costanera Sur) will be ready’”

It was interesting to find this article when I did because I was sitting in my favorite Sushi restaurant in San José, when I found the article. I had to come up the coast since the Pan American route had been experiencing periodic shut downs due to landslides. I don’t like driving up the coast primarily due to the 25 mile stretch between Dominical and Quepos. It is hard on the car and my temperament.

Snowed-In In Costa Rica

Pretty catchy title, right?. We all know that it doesn’t snow in Costa Rica. But remember that movie about the Jamaican bobsled team? This is exactly the same kind of thing, well in a remote sort of way it's almost the same thing.

I am sitting in my house in San Isidro. I came up here on Tuesday, it is presently Friday. I had intended to go back home to the coast on Wednesday. I have been unable to return home. The reason? Well, now therein lies the crux of this article. The impediments to me getting back home have been every bit as diverse and non-negotiable as though I were snowed in, just like the good ole days, back in my pre-Costa Rican life in Colorado.

My trip to San Isidro was motivated by my need to get my car’s technical revision (Riteve) made current, as well as some documents that I needed to sign at the lawyers for a new corporation for my Internet company. No problem. I figured I’d take care of those items and then get out to my house, which is just on the Dominical side of San Isidro. There is a screaming broadband Internet connection there that isn’t satellite based, so it seems to work all the time, well… almost.

Old Guy In Costa Rica

Uvita Costa Rica, where my office is located, is exploding. In the last year we have seen changes in this little coastal town that now has a smooth, pot hole-less highway running through it. Huge changes - nay, massive… what would the word be – revolutionary? One year ago we had no banks in Uvita: we now have two with a third on the way. One year ago we had two small neighborhood groceries; we now have three major ones, fluorescent lights, grocery carts and all. I went to a PDGD (pretty darn good dentist) here in Uvita the other day. I guess I should say PPDGD since she is pretty to boot. I needed a front tooth fixed cosmetically and she did a PDGJ. I used to think that I would have to travel to San Jose for such service, and in fact I/we have made numerous trips to San Jose when my kids had braces.

There is a golf course going in down the way, there are new hotels, cabinas, restaurants, tour companies, storage facilities, car washes and businesses of all types going in all around. In real estate companies we’ve got six in Uvita that I can think of off hand.

The Dumbest Thing I’ve Ever Done Part III

Part III of III
If you are just finding these articles, this is Part III of III. You might want to start the series by clicking the following links: Part I || Part II
After sitting there for awhile in that post-terror state, I decided to walk around. Opening the door I stepped down into the water and found that it came up to just above my knee. My cell phone has a flash light in it, so I put that on and began to walk upstream. The night was gorgeous. Now that I was away from the lights of the car, the blackness seemed to lift slightly and there was a glow from the sliver moon, and the countless stars. Then I had my second scariest moment, but this one was entirely from the contents of my mind.

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